Well, these are some of my opinions and my lessons from the past for what guys should be beware of and how to know that they really likes you.If you doesn't agree with my opinion, correct me. =)Firstly, a guy likes you will do something like:- call you everyday
- text you no matter what, tho there is nothing important
- replied your text
- date you
- jealous when you're hanging out with boys
- share problems with you
Usually boys which are always talk about promises, DON'T TRUST THEM. (I know this word might be hurting them but mostly 8 out of 10 are LIARS) What to do? Blame yourself lah! (sorry, I doesn't mean to scold you guys)
For myself, I love being courts/flirts by guys. (I'm not a slut, it just gave me a feel that I'm still so attractive. LOL) So I'm going to stay single as long as I can till I found some-one that really care about me, love me, never left me behind and care my feelings. Sometimes, when I was alone, I'm just so sad. I don't even know who to find, who to talk to.
So, back to the story. Mostly guys with a lots of girlfriend (I mean just friend, not those in a relationship) hardly to trust them. This guys usually loves courting girls and not being serious but of course we as girl would like this kind of feelings too. If you like this type of guys, get ready to be dump! Don't be silly. 9 out of 10 are dangerous. =.="
How to find out that they really cares about you??
- don't pick up their phone calls
- don't accept their date
- ignore them as long as you can but don't OVERPLAY (guys very sensitive like we do when we get angry)
- they remember each word that you say
- say sorry when do something wrong (guys, say sorry when you really mean it!)
- care your feelings
- never say lies to you except they really had to hid something from you
If the guy really cares about you, they'll notice that you're angry and worry about you. He will try to call you and asking why are you ignoring him. Some boys thinks that you hate them so you are trying to get rid of them. So what to do? After few days, he will text you and say that he won't disturb you anymore. Tell him that if we are ignoring him, then why in the earlier we talk to him?
How to we get rid of some one that we don't like?
- tell him that he's not your type
- don't gave him your phone number
- don't pick up his call so often
- ignore him as much as you can
- be different, i.e. bossy, greedy, bad temperature (just be the opposite of you, like the evil twins. xD)
- don't over react, they might thinks that you're crazy
Don't ever think to have a boyfriend so early. Sometimes boyfriend will give you a little freedom. If you complained that you don't have enough freedom from your parent, don't wish that you have a boyfriend. You'll look like a puppet if you do that. Think properly and make the right choice. You still young and you got lots of choices to choose. Be open minded, look forward, don't look only your current standing. If a guy dumps you, it doesn't means that the world are crushing. Don't ever think about suicide. Bad idea! Your parent gave you a sheltor to shed, a family warmth that full of love, love and care you till you're fully grown up and you die just because of a guy that dumped you?! Fuck you and I really mean it. If you trying to kill yourself, wish that you were never born before into this world.
Love yourself before you are trying to learn to love some one else.
See??